this ranks high among the most bullshit questions of all time.
the answer is usually neither. though i haven't heard it in years. i think kids mostly get asked that.
once i got caught smoking a cigarette at summer camp. eight grade era. few counselors came in to interrogate me and a couple other dudes i was with. "well. are you sorry? or are you sorry you got caught?"
ok so i've looked inside my soul and determined i'm not sorry for smoking the cigarette. everyone does that. i'm sorry you guys are so upset about all of this.